My first period is heavy. Is this normal? I'm eleven years old ...
first period A 13-year old girl in a remote Indian village died during her First Period menstruation because of the severity of anemia and excessive bleeding- yet her family, being unaware of the danger, did not suspect it to be dangerous. Devoid of any form of proper healthcare, menstrual education, or sanitary products, this sad death reveals the lethal effect of silence, stigma, and ignorance when it comes to periods. Girls kept dying in the year 2025 at a time when the world is advanced in science and space. And it is not her story only; it is society waking up to educate, empower and breaking the taboo.
A Life Lost to Her First Period: When Silence Kills More Than Blood Loss
The incident described in the story is presented as a specific case, but it reflects the wider issues of menstruation-related complications and social ignorance in rural areas of India, especially remote and underdeveloped areas like Sundarbans. I will analyse it in factual and social context:
1.1 Death from Menstruation: Is it Possible?
Medical Possibility: Yes, it is possible. Heavy menstrual bleeding and lack of proper medical care during menstruation can lead to severe anaemia, which can be life-threatening. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), anaemia is a major health problem among adolescent girls and women in India, which is further aggravated by malnutrition and lack of health awareness.
About 59% of adolescent girls (10-19 years) in India suffer from anaemia.
If bleeding is not controlled and blood transfusion is not done on time, it can lead to death, especially in vulnerable adolescent girls.
The case mentioned in the story: A 13-14 year old girl having her first menstrual period and dying of anemia due to continuous bleeding for 10 days is medically possible. If blood for blood group AB+ is not available in time and transfusion is delayed, the body may reject it, especially if the patient is already in a critical condition.
1.2 Social and Geographic Context of Sundarbans
Sundarbans Region: Sundarbans, a delta region on the border of West Bengal and Bangladesh, is famous for its biodiversity, but it is one of the most underdeveloped and remote regions of India.
Infrastructure: The deficiencies mentioned in the story—the absence of paved roads, electricity, and modern medical facilities—match the reality of Sundarbans. Electricity has reached many villages only recently, and emergency medical services are not available in time because health centres are far away.
Literacy Rate: The literacy rate of less than 2% mentioned in the story may be an exaggeration, but the literacy rate in Sundarbans is much lower than the national average (74%). According to the 2011 census, the literacy rate in parts of the Sundarbans was around 50-60%, and even lower among women. This may have improved by 2025, but education and awareness are still limited in rural areas.
Social stereotypes on menstruation: The story’s description of menstruation as “impure, shameful, and taboo” reflects the reality of the Sundarbans and many rural areas in India. According to a 2019 UNICEF report, 70% of girls in India receive no formal education about menstruation in school, and 23% of girls drop out of school when they start menstruating. The use of old clothes instead of sanitary pads is also common, increasing the risk of infection.
1.3 Lack of health facilities
Upazila Health Complex: The “Upazila Health Complex” mentioned in the story is common in the Bangladesh context, but in the Indian part of the Sundarbans it can be understood as a Primary Health Centre (PHC) or Community Health Centre (CHC). These centers often do not have adequate equipment, trained doctors, or blood banks.
Delayed blood transfusion: The story mentions a blood transfusion at 1 am. Such delays are common in rural areas due to lack of blood banks and unavailability of rare blood types such as AB+. If the patient is already in a critical condition, a late transfusion may not be effective.
1.4 Conclusion of Fact Verification
The incident described in the story may be specific, but it accurately reflects the widespread problem of menstrual complications, lack of health facilities, and social ignorance in areas like the Sundarbans.
Veracility: The story is credible from a medical and social point of view. However, the literacy rate (2%) and some details (such as “20 yards from the forest”) may be exaggerations or for literary effect.
Sources: WHO, UNICEF, and the Indian government’s health and census reports confirm such problems. Reports by Sundarbans-based non-governmental organisations (NGOs) such as the Sundarbans Social Development Centre also highlight these issues.
Whose responsibility is it?
Whose responsibility is it?
The central question of the story is: “Who will take responsibility?” Responsibility for this tragedy can be fixed at several levels:
Family:
The family did not initially take the girl’s condition seriously, which was a result of their ignorance and social stereotypes. It is common in rural areas to ignore menstruation as normal.
Limitation: Given the family’s lack of literacy and awareness, it is not fair to blame them completely.
Society:
Social beliefs that consider menstruation “impure” and “taboo” are the root cause of this tragedy. Girls are unable to openly share their problems, which prevents timely help.
Example: In areas like the Sundarbans, girls are kept in separate rooms during menstruation, and are kept away from social activities.
Health system:
The lack of blood banks, trained doctors, and emergency facilities in primary health centers in rural areas is a major reason.
Fact: According to a 2023 report by the Government of India, only 30% of rural health centres have emergency obstetric care available.
Education system:
Lack of education on menstrual and reproductive health in schools prevents adolescent girls from understanding their physical condition.
Example: According to the National Family Health Survey (NFHS-5, 2019-21), only 41% of rural women use sanitary pads.
Government and policy makers:
Lack of infrastructure (roads, electricity, health centres) and awareness programmes in areas like Sundarbans reflects the failure of the government.
Efforts: The government has launched programmes like “Beti Bachao, Beti Padhao” and “Mission Shakti”, but their impact has not reached remote areas.
All of us:
This tragedy is not just of one family or region, but of the entire society. The lack of open discussion on menstruation and the absence of awareness campaigns is our collective responsibility.
Solutions and suggestions
Solutions and suggestions
Immediate and long-term steps are needed to prevent such tragedies:
3.1 Immediate steps
Improving health slack:
Set up mobile medical units and blood banks in areas like the Sundarbans.
Ensure trained staff and equipment for menstrual emergency care in primary health centres.
Awareness campaigns:
Door-to-door campaigns for menstrual and health awareness should be conducted in local language (such as Bengali).
Train Anganwadi workers and ASHAs on menstrual health.
Sanitary pad distribution:
Implement government schemes (such as the Ujjwala Sanitary Scheme) for free sanitary pad distribution in schools and rural areas.
Promote affordable, eco-friendly sanitary pad production locally.
3.2 Long-term steps
Education:
Introduce compulsory education on menstrual and reproductive health from Class 5 in schools.
Include it in the curriculum to make both girls and boys aware about menstruation.
Social reform:
Land campaigns with community leaders, religious leaders, and NGOs to break taboos on menstruation.
Promote menstruation as a normal and respectable process.
Infrastructure:
Build paved roads, electricity, and health centers in areas like the Sundarbans.
Extend telemedicine and digital health services to rural areas.
Women empowerment:
Employ rural women as community health workers by training them on health and hygiene.
Create menstrual clubs or support groups for adolescent girls.
The broader context: Why even in 2025?
The broader context: Why even in 2025?
The story raises the question as to why such tragedies are still happening in 2025, when the world is talking about building homes on the moon. The reasons are:
Uneven development:
Technology and healthcare facilities in urban areas in India are world class, but development has not reached rural areas, especially remote areas like the Sundarbans.
Cultural stereotypes:
Social stigma on menstruation exists in both rural and urban areas of India. This is a result of lack of education and awareness.
Inadequate implementation of policies:
The government has launched the Menstrual Hygiene Scheme (MHS) and the Rashtriya Kishor Swasthya Karyakram (RKSK), but these have had limited impact.
A tragic incident has emerged from Purba Bardhaman district in West Bengal, where Sultana Parvin died mysteriously just days after her marriage. The case has shocked the local community, and investigations are currently underway. To read the full report and details, visit the complete story on Sultana Parvin’s mysterious death.
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Conclusion and inspiration
This story is a tragedy of a teenage girl’s death, but it also inspires us to be aware and make a change. Menstruation is not a curse; it is a natural process that marks the beginning of life. We must view it with respect rather than shame.
Calling: Society, government, and individuals must join hands to spread awareness on menstruation. Parents must educate their daughters, schools must prioritize health education, and the government must increase health facilities in rural areas.
Respect: In honor of the girl in this story and millions of girls who suffer silently, we must ensure that such a death does not become the last chapter for anyone else.
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